Husband

wow ! what a great relation is this "husband",the one guy who was born and brought up somewhere becomes the whole life for us.I never thought i will also be a girl who does everything to make a guy happy just because they are married.But what happened?All my 24hours revolves around him.All his relatives are my relatives too..it doesn't matter if i liked them or not.Frankly speaking, i know there will be atleast one person the girl don't like in his family.But still we live with all our hidden feelings.I feel like we are too obsessed with our husband.Do we spend little time for ourselves?How many of us cook at least one dish that is our favorite and his most hated one?I don't blame us for being like this,but do the husbands understand us?or atleast try to undersand us?The one thing i get irritated is ,their anger when we reject to do a single thing that they wanted us to do.I think it has not only happened to me but to all of us.I really can't understand why in the world they do not understand us?I really appreciate them for pleasing with many sweet gifts,surprises,consolments and for everything.But sometimes i think they need to understand us more..don't you?

Family

Family--This word is the most wonderful as well as the most sickening word.Our world after marriage revolves around this small fancy word.We always work for making our a happy family.Sometimes unfortunately it ends with just two,but most of the times we try hard to keep the family big and strong.Writing about this i remember my husband's grandmom.I think she is amazing,being a mom for 4 sons and mother-in-law for 4 daughter-in-laws along with 2 daughters she is the still the queen of the family.She controls them with love and sometimes with her anger.But sometimes i see and hear from my friends about some sick lady playing the chief role and causing trouble to all members,sometimes it continues with generations.Now,what kind of family are we going to make?Are we going to be a pleasant wife,smart mom and lovable granny,cool mother-in-law?Will we be able to do it?If we want to do it ,we need to have just one quality...patience.Can we be so patient that we never get angry and handle everything wise?I know then the age for getting married is 61 not 21.So what else can we do??

A simple Introduction

Hello all!! I really don't know what to write in this blog.I used to write more before my marraige ,but i can see lot of things has changed.But now i really miss writing and i do want to share my thoughts.I am so amazed how our mind works non stop without taking a break especially for the girls.We keep on thinking...past ,present ,future........non stop.I know it is too boring to read ,but i guarantee you my writing will not be so boring.I just started writing about what we, especially the ladies who got married and living abroad think.Our life has changed a lot ,we think a lot,do lot of new things,meet new people..i think it is like living a whole new life.We are happy most of the times,confused some time and sad some time.We think we are the luckiest women from heart...but after some time we realize we are not that happy as a news to us from our brain.We indeed have got lot of contradictions within ourselves.What are the contradictions?How are we handling it?