Family

Family--This word is the most wonderful as well as the most sickening word.Our world after marriage revolves around this small fancy word.We always work for making our a happy family.Sometimes unfortunately it ends with just two,but most of the times we try hard to keep the family big and strong.Writing about this i remember my husband's grandmom.I think she is amazing,being a mom for 4 sons and mother-in-law for 4 daughter-in-laws along with 2 daughters she is the still the queen of the family.She controls them with love and sometimes with her anger.But sometimes i see and hear from my friends about some sick lady playing the chief role and causing trouble to all members,sometimes it continues with generations.Now,what kind of family are we going to make?Are we going to be a pleasant wife,smart mom and lovable granny,cool mother-in-law?Will we be able to do it?If we want to do it ,we need to have just one quality...patience.Can we be so patient that we never get angry and handle everything wise?I know then the age for getting married is 61 not 21.So what else can we do??